17 March 2015

YOUTH ISSUES: MY PARENTS ARE ALWAYS ARGUING

When shouting , fighting seem to be a normal thing in the home affects not only the party involve but the children , when a child grows up in that enviroment the likehood that he or she would grow up to be aggressive towards others is very high because such a child would assume it is normal. Argument is healthy when resolved amicably without shouting , fighting .
From the perceptive of a youth what should i do when this happens is to shut your door , go down on your kneels and pray that Jesus Christ begins to dominate in your home but what if my parents are non believers the Bible says the prayer of a righteous availeth implying that God will answer your prayer and one day the Holy Spirit will touch their heart , avoid taking sides with anyone of them .
When the argument has gone down appraoch both of them and voice your opinion let them see the reason and the effect it having on you and this must be done in a respectful way no matter what they are your parents and must be respected. Dont let this affect your behaviour infact ensure that you are so well behaved in all ramifications of your life.
As parents arguing in front of your children must be avoided but can be done behind closed door no matter the basis of the argument it can be resolved with love.

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