RELATIONSHIP:AVOIDING SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE

You must be old fashioned not to have sex with your partner the society we reside in view sexual relationship like water it is not a big deal if you have sex with someone you are not married afterall you will still get married . But is it really possible to stay without sex especially during the cold days when you need someone to cuddle peradventure you are a single father and a child of God still searching for the right person how would you fight off those emotions , desires?
Sex is the greatest weapon the devil and his agents are using to destroy lives as achild of God your determinaton to be celibate till you say I do would help but what are the practical steps to take because each person response to this desire varies keep your self vey busy what do you mean you might ask . An idle mind will begin to imagine sex and if care is not take would eventually practise it.
Be careful of what you watch the media especially the television has a great influence not forgetting the internet , what you dont see wont bring imagination would share something with you about two years ago there was a video going viral on the internet showing a lady that was been raped andwas filmed out of curiousity I watched my motive was to see the callous guys but the fact that i watched it which can be said i watched pornography it didnt take days it took hours by the time I went to bed my mind was occupied with the video , that night the dream I had was terrible be very careful it brings imagination leading to secrets sins like masturbation and eventaully sex.
Be careful of what you listen to , I give you a challenge listen to a christian song continuosly  for the whole week eventually subconsciously you will know the song lyrics and visual God with the description of the song my favourite song ISRAEL HOUGHTON "Your presence is Heaven to Me " has a huge influence to my life.
But allof these will be difficult to achieve without the help of the Holy Spirit pray for the Holy Spirit to help you